Jonathan had not forgotten that his father wanted David killed, but he had persuaded him to take back his vow. But David knew that Saul’s anger was not going to go away. Jonathan needed a little more convincing. When he saw Saul’s fierce anger, venting not only at David, but at Jonathan himself (giving him the end of the spear) – he knew David had to run. It was terrible having to choose between having your friend and remaining loyal to your father. Anger does that to families. Even if no violence takes place, a person’s anger can separate friends, and harm relationships.
LORD, help us to control our feelings. Help us to realize the harm that they are doing.
1 Samuel 20